Fill in the Blanks with Care


In this community, we believe that care is not separate from the work we do or the cause we advocate for - it is a fundamental thread in the movement we are sustaining. How we treat each other is not separate from what we are building. Let's start building this community's thread by filling in the blanks with care!

 

Drawing from our collective Care Menus, we commit to (practice of care and why). We will protect (core value) even when it is hard because (why). We refuse to (a harmful behaviour and why you won't do this). We celebrate (choose one or all - people, principle, value and why). And when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to (action that is about repair/re-committing to the cause).

Comments (36)

Mariam Gibson Bwire

We commit to care, we will protect and care my fellows even when it’s hard because we care. We refuse to mistreat and disrespect because we may hurt others feeling. We celebrate everyone impact and when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to apologize because we care.

Radhika Singh

Drawing from our collective Care Menus, we commit to listening with patience and speaking with intention, because movements cannot survive on urgency alone. We will protect dignity even when it is hard, because no cause is meaningful if people lose themselves within it. We refuse to normalize burnout, extraction, or performative activism, because the world we are trying to build should already be visible in how we treat one another now.

We celebrate curiosity, gentleness, accountability, and the people who keep showing up with hope despite exhaustion. And when we fall short, as all humans do, we promise to pause, reflect honestly, repair what we can, and return to the work with greater care for each other and the Earth. 🌏

Anaïs Magliocco

Thank you for sharing Radhika! I loved the mention of dignity (so important!), curiosity and gentleness. How did you like the Care Menus?

Liz M

Radhika!! Thank you for the wisdom, "movements cannot survive on urgency alone" ... this is so important. I often feel guilty for how slow-moving my personal work and efforts seem to develop, especially when things are so quickly falling apart... but I know that an effective climate movement needs lots of regular people who are committed to doing our best at taking care of both ourselves and others. I really appreciate how you sum it all up - "the world we are trying to build should already be visible in how we treat one another now."

Jose Gonzalo Flores

Drawing from our collective Care Menus, we commit to listening with empathy and supporting each other because movements are only sustainable when people feel safe and valued. We will protect dignity and solidarity even when it is hard because climate action without humanity loses its purpose.

We refuse to normalize exclusion, indifference or burnout because no community can grow while people are being left behind. We celebrate collaboration, local knowledge and the courage of communities defending their territories. And when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to reflect, repair harm and recommit ourselves to building a more just and caring future together.

Anaïs Magliocco

That's amazing Jose! I particularly resonate with the last sentence, because it's essential to give ourselves grace when building a better future, and trying again when we fail without judgement.

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Dzifa Afua Felicia Sakitey

In this community, we believe that care is not separate from the work we do. Drawing from our collective Care Menus:
We commit to listening first, especially to voices from informal settlements and rural building communities because their lived experience of climate impact and housing need shapes better solutions.
We will protect the integrity of data and research refusing greenwashing claims that mask real environmental harm.
We refuse to speak over grassroots builders and informal economy workers and amplify their knowledge instead.
We celebrate young African architects and engineers who are already innovating with local materials and climate-responsive design, proving our continent is not waiting for Western solutions. And when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to listen to feedback from those most affected by our work, acknowledge our mistakes openly, and recommit to building systems that serve people first.

Anaïs Magliocco

Thank you for completing this exercise Dzifa! It's really important that you highlighted the voices from informal settlements and their knowledge, as they are too often forgotten, despite being on the forefront of the climate crisis. How did you like the exercise and the Care Menus?

Nicolas SOUBEIGA

Excellente analyse. L’intégrité scientifique est un ciment essentiel pour la co-construction d'une société inclusive. Les intellectuelles ignorent souvent jusqu'à quel degré le bien être globale à adossé à d'eux.

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Dzifa Afua Felicia Sakitey

Anaïs Magliocco

Hi Anaïs,

Thank you for highlighting this. The exercise was powerful because it made me confront something I was uncomfortable with: how easy it is to talk about informal settlements from a distance, rather than with the people living in them. The Care Menus forced me to ask: Who am I building this Ghana Green Building Performance Initiative for? If I'm only designing energy models and certifications that formal builders can afford, I'm not solving the crisis but rather deepening it. What struck me most was realizing that the people in Volo (my home village) dealing with oyster shell waste and unregulated construction, they're not waiting for my data or my credentials. They're already innovating within constraints. My role is to document their knowledge, not replace it with "better" solutions from outside. I liked the Care Menus because they made it concrete. Not abstract statements about community, but real commitments: refusing to speak over them, protecting data integrity (no greenwashing), celebrating their knowledge systems. That's the work. The rest is just tools. Thanks for pushing on this.

Liz M

Dzifa, your response has left me thinking a lot about the intersection between housing and climate justice work. Ensuring proper shelter and living spaces is a foundational pillar for creating just climate solutions in the future.

As a Westerner (usa...), I hope to have the opportunity to learn more from African solutions and engineering in the field of architecture and housing design. Here in my country we have major issues with building enough proper shelter, which is a problem made worse by the worsening climate crisis. Our politics and economy leave so many people without shelter in the urban environments and very little investment in the quality of life for rural communities.

Your comment has given me a new perspective, and I hope to research about African architecture innovation sometime soon :)

Dramane Ouattara

Dans cette communauté, nous croyons que la bienveillance est indissociable de notre travail et de la cause que nous défendons ; elle est un fil conducteur fondamental du mouvement que nous soutenons. La façon dont nous nous traitons les uns les autres est indissociable de ce que nous construisons. Commençons à tisser les liens de cette communauté en comblant les lacunes par la bienveillance !

En nous appuyant sur nos valeurs de bienveillance collectives, nous nous engageons à la lutte pour le climat. Nous protégerons notre environnement même lorsque c'est difficile car notre avenir en dépand. Nous refusons l'insalubrité et pourquoi nous avions moins d'inondation. Nous célébrons des journées de salubrité et de sensibilisation climatique: la communauté, la jeunesse, les traditions, et loi coutumière et c'est un facteur de cohésion sociale. Et lorsque nous commettons des erreurs, car nul n'est parfait, nous nous engageons à entreprendre des discussions de groupe et forum communautaire.

Anaïs Magliocco

Merci pour ton commentaire, Dramane! J'apprécie particulièrement ta mention de la bienveillance collective et du fait de rebondir après avoir fait des erreurs, car nul n'est parfait lorsqu'il ou elle agit pour la lutte climatique!

Liz M

Merci Dramane pour votre déclaration; "nous croyons que la bienveillance est indissociable de notre travail et de la cause que nous défendons... La façon dont nous nous traitons les uns les autres est indissociable de ce que nous construisons." Ouiiii! Beau et vrai <3

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Ayan Chattoraj

Drawing from our collective Care Menus:

We commit to listening before asking for any change in our community because trust spent carelessly is a resource we cannot replenish.

We will protect each other’s capacity to imagine a different future even when it is hard because if that belief goes, the work goes with it.

As abundance already exists - in knowledge, in relationships, in traditions, in care people have practised long before we arrived - we won’t frame our communities through what they lack.

We will celebrate the invisible work as it the underground thread that holds the visible work upright.

And if we fall short, we will name it specifically, and repair it directly as a movement has to survive its own imperfections before surviving in the community it aims to uplift👍️.

Liz M

I do appreciate your first point about listening and its importance in trust-building. Listening to each other in the service of mutual understanding must be foundational to our movement-building. Without collective understanding, the movement topples. Listening is how we reconcile different worldviews, rebalance power inequity, and weigh the varying impacts of our decision-making.

Nicolas SOUBEIGA

A mon avis, le simple fait que la question de la bienveillance, de la courtoisie et la bienveillance soit aux menus de nos discussions, montre que nos communautés ont perdu les valeurs essentielles au survis durable de l'humanité et de l'humanisme. Ces valeurs devraient être de soi. Pas des règles, pas des programmes, pas des plans, pas des projets. Puisqu’on est humains, la nature nous les a dotés dès notre conception et on devrait la vivre naturellement. A l'étape actuelle, nous avons pris connaissance que nous l'avons banalisée et que pour cette faute commune, nos actions individuelles et collectives ont de moins en moins d'effets. Alors, posons-nous les vraies questions. Qu’est ce qui me manque pour me sentir humain : l'estime, la considération, la compassion d'autrui, l'amour, le respect, l'écoute etc. transformons donc ceux-ci en action concrète pour notre entourage. Et si tout le monde en fait pareil, nous coconstruirons une société pleinement humaine ou chaque personne se sentira chez soi et en sécurité. Libre et utile.

Jasco John

We commit to treating every young person as an asset, not a liability. We will protect the integrity of every youth's involvement even when it is hard, because the financial identity we are building is only worth something if it is built on truth. We refuse to treat waste as someone else's problem. We celebrate youths who show up, counts every bottle, and earns their record. And when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to audit honestly, name what broke, and fix the system — not the blame — returning to our youth and communities with transparency and a better plan.

Jose Gonzalo Flores

I really appreciate the idea of treating young people as assets rather than liabilities.

Your point about fixing systems instead of assigning blame also stands out to me. I think long-term change becomes much more possible when movements are built around accountability, transparency, and collective responsibility rather than fear of mistakes.

Liz M

Thank you, Jasco John, for bringing up the topic of waste. "We refuse to treat waste as someone else's problem." Yesss.... Waste Management (be it, human waste, plastic waste, food waste, the waste of resources and labor...) is critical to consider as we build a new future. These are collective issues we must work together to address.

Additionally, I like how you focus on childrens and youth rights in your statement. The children are the inheritor of the world we build, they must be active participants in advocacy and decision-making.

Suleymen Abduremsn Omer
Suleymen Abdureman Omer

Drawing from our collective Care Menus, we commit to practicing empathy, active listening, and mutual support because strong movements are built through trust and human connection. We will protect inclusivity and respect even when it is hard because every voice and lived experience matters in creating meaningful climate action. We refuse to spread exclusion, discrimination, or silence others because movements become weaker when people feel unheard or unsafe. We celebrate collaboration, diversity, hope, and collective action because sustainable change happens when communities work together. And when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to reflect, learn, repair relationships, and recommit ourselves to building a compassionate and resilient movement together 🌍🤝🌱

Jose Gonzalo Flores

I really like the emphasis on inclusivity and creating spaces where people feel heard and safe.

I also think your point about repair and recommitment is very important because strong movements are not built by perfection, but by the ability to learn, reflect, and continue growing together even after difficult moments.

Rynat Fattakhov

Опираясь на наши общие «Меню заботы»
мы обязуемся проявлять эмпатию, активно слушать и оказывать взаимную поддержку,
с сочувствием выслушивать и поддерживать друг друга;
защищать достоинство и солидарность — даже в сложных ситуациях;
не мириться с изоляцией, безразличием и выгоранием;
ценить сотрудничество, знание местной специфики и мужество сообществ;
анализировать ошибки, исправлять вред и подтверждать приверженность справедливому и заботливому будущему.

Heig Chinengemambo

Whilst sympathy feels pity or sorrowful for someone else's misfortune it doesn't necessarily share those exact feelings. Sympathy is a distant concern. We choose empathy over sympathy because we seek to understand and share the feelings of our peers by stepping into their shoes. Together we can.

Jose Gonzalo Flores

I really appreciate this distinction between sympathy and empathy.

Sustainable movements require more than distant concern, they require the willingness to truly listen, understand, and connect with the experiences of others. I think empathy is what allows communities to build trust, solidarity, and meaningful collective action.

Liz M

This is a beautiful and important statement, Heig. I too see these differences happen in politics and society : the shallow and distant platitudes of sympathy versus the physical, emotional, and social actions that can help us and our broader societies to view each other with deep and authentic empathy. Sympathy feels stagnant, empathy feels active.

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Akshita Kharb

Drawing from our collective care menus, we commit to respect each other's views because we need a collective action.We will protect individual liberty even when it is hard because our unity is valuable.We refuse to use abusive behaviour as respect is a core value of our community .And when we fall short , because no one is perfect , we promise to discuss it together.

Faith Wambiya

Drawing from our collective Care Menus, we commit to showing up for one another with empathy, honesty, and active listening because sustainable change can only grow in spaces where people feel seen, valued, and supported. We will protect dignity and mutual respect even when it is hard because the strength of our community depends on how safely and authentically people can belong within it. We refuse to silence, exclude, or diminish others because every voice and lived experience carries wisdom that can strengthen the movement we are building. We celebrate collaboration, courage, and compassion because collective care allows communities to heal, grow, and thrive together. And when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to take accountability, repair harm, learn from our mistakes, and recommit ourselves to the values and purpose that brought us together.

Belén Acosta

Drawing from our collective Care Menus, we commit to listening to each other with empathy and intention, because genuine care begins with making people feel heard and supported. We will protect respect and human dignity even when it is hard because every person deserves to feel valued, safe, and included. We refuse to normalize indifference or silence in moments when support is needed, because these behaviors weaken trust and connection within a community. We celebrate compassion, collaboration, and the courage to show up for one another, because meaningful change is only possible when people care collectively. And when we fall short, because no one is perfect, we promise to acknowledge our mistakes, repair harm where we can, and recommit ourselves to creating a more caring and supportive environment. 💚

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Bini Yao Elysée

Based on our shared values of collective kindness, we commit to practicing active listening and mutual respect, because this helps us better understand others, reduces conflicts, and strengthens trust within the group.
We will protect the dignity of every person, even when it is difficult, because every individual deserves respect regardless of their opinions, mistakes, or differences, and this ensures a healthy and inclusive environment.
We refuse any form of mockery, exclusion, or discrimination, because such behaviors weaken group cohesion, harm individuals, and prevent constructive collaboration.
We celebrate diversity among people, collective effort, and mutual support, because they are the strength of the group, encourage innovation, and create an environment where everyone can grow.
And when we make mistakes, since no one is perfect, we commit to acknowledging them, apologizing when necessary, and correcting our behavior to make lasting progress, in order to strengthen trust and continuous improvement within the group.


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